Film

When Harry Met Sally... 1989

Directed by Rob Reiner

  • Comedy, Romance, Drama
  • 96 min
  • R

Can two friends sleep together and still love each other in the morning?

Sex always gets in the way of friendships between men and women. At least, that's what Harry Burns believes. So when Harry meets Sally Albright and a deep friendship blossoms between them, Harry's determined not to let his attraction to Sally destroy it. But when a night of weakness ends in a morning of panic, can the pair avoid succumbing to Harry's fears by remaining friends and admitting they just might be the perfect match for each other?

ComedyRomanceDramanew year's evenew york cityfriendshipdinerholidayslightheartedin love with best friendfake orgasmreminiscentmale female friendshipclichélongtime friends

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